i dunno about the ford sensor, but toyota use either a 1 wire or a 4 wire O2 sensor, i have a ST184 that had a 5sfe and i have a gen III 3sge in it now, so i have seen my fair share of problems, especially with my O2 sensor as i have a mazda one on mine car at the moment, so i don't know why your only ave 3 wires, i'll just assume that the sensor is an earth like the single wire ones. but unless you have hooked up the sensor wrong i can see a concievable way an O2 sensor can crap with your ECU. maybe if you share how you wired it up, with more then the single wire ones you need to have a +12V ~for about 30seconds~, ground(heater), ground(sensor) and the last wire is for the ECU it should also be sheilded, this is how you know its the sensor wire, as mazda and toyota unfortunately for me don't share the same colour wiring.... oh well.
PS you know you can run the car with out an O2 sensor the economy will go down and the car will run rich, i might suggest you unhook the sensor and see if you have done damage to the ecu, also remember that you must rest the ECU by pulling the EFI fuse for 30seconds to rest the memory in the ecu.
good luck with it
-Dunky
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