OK guys here's an update so people that may be reading this in the future can save themselves the headache and heartache of what i went through chasing my tail trying to get this sorted!!
my first bit of advise, TAKE YOU CAR TO A TRUSTED AND KNOWLEDGEABLE STEERING AND SUSPENSION WORKSHOP!! as simple as a wheel alignment sounds, it can serious affect your cars steering and handling!!
so after some recommendations from people in the know, i took my car too Jim Hunter Suspension at Blacktown. Great bunch of blokes, they took the time to listen to what i needed as a customer, and also took the time to explain steering basics to me (which by now after all the research I've done I had a good understanding of, but it was much appreciated anyways)
I explained the issues that i had been having with my steering/handling and they very much confirmed what i had already identified in the posts above. The majority of the issues with my steering came from the toe out that was dialed into the car!!
so now the car has:
Zero toe
+2 degree caster (this is all we could get before the wheels start fouling on the bottom corner lip of the guard)
-1.5 degree camber.
I was able to get this done on the weekend in time for the Classic Celica Appreciation Day Cruise on Sunday, so i got a good chance to test the changes made. Now driving out of the workshop i could instantly feel the difference in the steering.
Driving the car through the twisties though really highlighted the gains made to the steering and handling of the car!! It was like night and day to be honest.... steering compliance was bang on the money, i was able to pick lines through corners (at times carrying seriously great speeds) and the steering absolutely stayed right on track!! It gave me a lot of confidence in my cars abilities as i had full control of what my car was doing now!!
hope this helps anyone that's following along and has experienced the same issues, or anyone searching in the future.
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