Depending on the car it can be anything between a piece of piss and a complete nightmare.
Firstly, is the autobox electronic (ie, does it have an ecu).
If its not electronic, then it should be a piece of piss.
If it electronic, read on
Some cars will have a wiring harness already there for an auto, so its basically plug an play.
For the cars that don't have the wiring harness already there, you'll need to remove the harness from the donor car.
Some have a separate harness you can easily remove, some have one thats fully integrated into the body loom (not the engine loom).
If the engine ecu is a combined engine and auto ecu, then there is a good chance that if you remove the whole engine loom (which will contain the tranny loom), and ecu, and it may be plug and play with your existing setup.
Overall, unless the car you have is immaculate (or much much better than whats currently on the market), it will be easier to sell up and buy an automatic.
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